Soo confused!?!
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 yrs and He has lived with me for almost 2 yrs.
He didnt have anywhere to go so i took him in!
I love him and he's my Bestfriend but I'm a 17 yr old Graduating and I feel as if though I'm an old lady; I never thought about any of this before. I dont know whats wrong with me!:(
He still has another year to Graduate and I dont know what to do...I dont want him out of my life but i dont want to be old! Pleaseee! someone give me some advice! I feel as if I've wasted my Teenage years :(
~Tell me what you think :) Pleaseeeee!
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Permalink Reply by Hardy & Katrine Loeffler on -
Dear Kaylyn,
Just looked you up since you didn't react to our last comment on "Green for God"...Looks like you are in a real dilemma! You love your boyfriend, but you also seem to realize that your past choices have estranged you from our loving Father (living out of wedlock with your boyfriend etc. ---- you know best what all these choices were!). Of course, you don't want to be "old" already, but the real question is: Do you love the Lord more than anything else, including your boyfriend? If so, do you want to be pleasing to Him in all things of your life? Then you have to get back on track with Him - spend tons of time with Him alone, telling Him about your confusion, confess your sins and be cleansed by Him, and then you will be able to face the hard decision(s) you have to make. Without that there's no chance of ever having a real meaningful and un-confused life. Unfortunately, no human being can fill the void in your heart...only God can. And he is waiting patiently right now for you to come back to Him so he can wrap you into His loving arms.
Praying for you,
hardy & Katrine.
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Permalink Reply by Jim London on
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Kaylyn, blessings upon you. And thank you for allowing others to speak into your situation! There is great wisdom in doing that!
I was about to respond to you last night when I first saw your post, but it seemed that God was saying, "Not now," so I just let it go without knowing why He was withholding His go-ahead. Then this morning, as I read what Hardy / Katrine wrote to you, I knew that those were His loving and honest words for you, and that He is beckoning you to take a big step toward Him. He is real. If you feel any kind of tug in your heart to let Him have it all, that's Him speaking.
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Permalink Reply by Ryan Spear on -
I shouldn't be answering just having 2 impacted wisdom teeth pulled. My whole jaw is still numb. Should have seen the jarveled misspelled jumbo I sent to my boss, a couple hours ago still under the affects of anesthetic, hehe. Your situation is confusing to me but you are where you are. Change is coming girl. Yup. When the Holy Spirit starts to take you in a different direction, there is that period of 'What happening with me' and you get a frantic state of mind. Life does change.
Do you sense change coming? I had a sense a job I was working was going to end and it did. I had the sense that home wasn't home anymore before I found a job that moved me out of state and it happened. Are you getting the sense your boyfriend isn't going on with you into the next part of life? Are you getting frantic in mind because you sense this is going to happen and don't want it to. For me loosing a 13 year long job wasn't fun nor was moving but now that it happened, I can see it was a good thing that it did. God keeps life interesting.
I'd just like to encourage you to go out somewhere alone away from the distractions and just pour your feelings and heart with this whole situtation to God. If there are prayers of mine He's heard and got answered, it's been those heartfelt prayers.
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Permalink Reply by Kaylyn on -
I guess it is up to god whatever happends :)
good or bad it'll eventually turn out good if it's in gods hands<3
Thank all of you for helping!
I will have some alone time and pray ^_^
You have a way with words that i understand
Thankyou Ryan!
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Permalink Reply by Laura S on -
HI Kaylyn, As a young woman I too was in a relationship outside the guidelines of our faith. I also had decisions to make which would hurt my parent and sibling. God showed me that He loved these precious people MORE than I did. My job was to obey Him, and that was actually the most loving thing I could do for them.
So listen to your loving Father, listen to what He is showing you and obey Him. He loves your boyfriend more than you do...and I pray you connect again with The Life. Jesus. You are too young to be an old married lady.
Kaylyn said:I guess it is up to god whatever happends :)
good or bad it'll eventually turn out good if it's in gods hands<3
Thank all of you for helping!
I will have some alone time and pray ^_^
You have a way with words that i understand
Thankyou Ryan!
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Permalink Reply by Teresa on -
Greetings my beloved young sister, this sounds like me when I was 15 I left home to live with my boyfriend. The brokenness you feel is cause God wants you to learn something repent/change/turn from so He may heal you. Satan is a liar my young sister in Christ. You are not able to carry anyone else that is the work of the enemy a stronghold to keep you from who you really are in Christ. When I finally accepted my lesson and Christ entered in my heart and life I was 46 years old. Now, at 49 years old I feel so young light and free its crazy I truely feel like a young girl living and learning a whole new life a NEW CREATION. God is all mighty the creator of the universe. He gives us a new breath of life every time He heals our wounds. But, only when we learn and turn away and turn to Him. I love you my sister in spirit for we are the body of Christ. If I may suggest you cry out to Jesus let Him give you insight and strentgh to see to hear and to do what is best as His child. A child of God!!!! Awaken my sister and let your wings fly. Praises to our Yeshua....
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Permalink Reply by jeromy and Marcelia on -
The Father is telling you what to do . Listen Obey .....now .
He loves you and he also loves him . Do what he says !
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Permalink Reply by daniel nandokha mandu on -
Life well lived is life never regretted.God will always grant all in the best interest for you.So how do you run that race.In the end of it, I hope you will have something to appreciate if you run it perfectly.Hope that is meant for you. that be the case you need not to worry of insecurities but I worry to hear you sound that way.Then you need to learn to hear the inner voice as you look up where comes that help what many consider to be foolish.SHALOM.
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Permalink Reply by Kim on -
Dear Kaylyn, I agree with all that's said except you are not estranged from your Father. God showed Himself to me late in life, 47, I'm now 54. I had a lot of baggage. I was so on fire for Jesus, then I fell, long story. What kept me down and almost killed me creating a depression so dark was the idea that I was separated fro
God. It's a lie. I was in a catch 22, only God could take me put of the mess I was in. I could not do it. If I could've simply on my own been obedient to God I doubt I would have ever needed Him. I kept crying out I need you and would hear their voices saying he won't look you, your in sin, God can't look at sin. That's true but He was looking at me because I was and had been covered by the blood of Christ. I would never had known God if my sin had separated me from Him because I was in sin when He showed Himself to me and I did not look for Him He looked for me. I pray you believe God is there right now, He is in you, you just have believed otherwise. You cannot do anything without Him. The knowledge that He has NOT left you is crucial. Jesus changes you, do you need to want Him to? Yes and no, ask the Lord to put in you that of Him, ask Him to reveal to you His mind, His strength, His courage, tell Him your lost and confused and helpless unless He does what only God can do! God cares about your heart more than anything. We all say love God and put Him first. This is in response to Gods love for us. Please please believe God is not waiting for you to do the right thing before He'll help you. He is the one who will be your ability to do the right thing. The idea that God was waiting for me to be obedient seriously almost put me on the grave. It is a lie. The pain I could've been spared had I been aware He was right there. After His revealing this truth to me everything changed and I was unable to take any credit at all for my obedience, it was God! I just needed to believe Him! My heart breaks for you. God will see you through. Know this, if God were not there you would not even have these questions!
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